Quick update: There has been zero response to the major doses of honesty I unleashed on a few people yesterday evening. That’s fine, try not to let the door hit you on the way out of my life. The real test will be this weekend when I celebrate the New Year.
Today I woke up with a bit of a new outlook. I woke up to a few new messages on my Collarspace and FetLife accounts, one was super disgusting and I ignored it… but the others, I actually sent replies. This is big. Usually, I ignore 90% of messages regardless of content. This is a big step in my resolve to stop writing off all Doms as ‘bad’.
I don’t think the Doms I’ve talked to today have any real potential, we have so little in common. But, at least I tried! They were friendly enough, but didn’t keep my interest. I need someone who can do better. I’ll know when I find him. Well, actually I thought I HAD found him but life is funny sometimes. I tried, nothing happened, and that’s that.